Well I'm 17 now I met this guy when I was 16 he was 22 when I met him .when we first saw each other I went to his car he park his car in a parking lot and start touching me I didn't mine .we had sex in his house and in the motel he be asking picture of me naked I trust him .he begs me so I just give it to him I know his not bad his a nice person we still talk .he told me he respect me he never saw me like a young girl he be ing but my problem now I have a boyfriend we have 1 year together I love him but that guy get jelouse sometime and one time he called me a slut but in 6 days he apologize .last time we talk about sex .was about how's sex with him? Do you like having sex with me ? I like how I do this and that to you? What about you ? And he told me that I'm the only girl he s now and that I'm the only minor he be doing this too did I said he ask me out yeah he did but in that time I already had my boyfriend so I want to be done with this 22 year old guy I did it once it took 3week but then again the story starts I really don't want to do that to my boyfriend my boyfriend is 17 his an angle and if you wondering to go I lost my virginity it was to that 22 year old guy... Can someone help me

That 22 year old is a creep. Having sex with you and taking pictures, what a creep. He is not a nice person. Nice people don't pressure teens into doing things like that.
You need to tell him to leave you alone and if he does not, you need to look into pressing charges against him. It is very wrong what he is doing.
Your parents need to know about this guy.

Well I would tell my parents the thing is that me and my parents have issue and my tell the cops I'm afraid he never did nothing to harm me but I really just want him to go with no problem

He did harm you. He force you to take nude pictures, he had sex with you. You are a minor, he an adult. He had no business messing with you. He is still harming you.
You need to tell him to leave you alone and don't talk to him, don't respond to him if he calls or text you. If he does not stop, you need to let your parents know what's going on.

Ill see what I'm going to do thanks for helping I just wish I was strong in personality :/ not a dump letting him do what ever he wants to me :/

Which is exactly why he is doing what he's doing. You need to tell him to leave you alone and mean it and be prepared to let your parents know what's going on. Somebody needs to know about this creep. He may be doing this to other girls.

Ok well I'm planing to tell my boyfriend is that good I told my ex to he said to tell anybody that I trust... is that right I really don't want to get nobody introuble so I'm going to talk to my boyfriend and when that guy comes I tell my boyfriend to tell him to leave me alone is that correct what I'm doing because I don't want to bring all that people in my business I just want some peace

What is your 17 year old boyfriend going to do with that grown man? This is your problem. Your parents need to be in this as does the police if he does not leave you alone.

The thing is he will then he will come back .and no I don't talk to my parents me and my parents are not cool I'm those type of girls that keeps everything to itself but I'll talk to that guy ill tell him what I feel we did that once and he understand so ill talk to him alil more seriouse

You tell him to leave you alone, then you don't talk to him anymore. But if he does, you need to tell someone who can actually do something. Your 17 year old boyfriend can't. The police will set his nasty butt straight.

Ok I will I see him on wendsday ill tell him to leave me alone if he doesn't ill avoid him and he still want to see me ill tell some adult but what would happen to him I don't want to ruin someone life that bad :/,

And what would happen to me ? What would my boyfriend say what would anybody say what the school will say about me in my school rumors starts really fast everybody going to start saying things that are not how it is

That's why I didn't tell nobody about that guy and me I told some of my friend but some was really bad and told me to be with him and get money use him things like that some my other friend said that I'm crazy but it's nothing bad that his just horny and need to I really hate my friends for that

I got to Amit I kind of like him only problem of him he force me he brain watch me I always fall to his feet

You are so worried about ruining his life, What about what he has done to yours?
Why are you going to see him? I think you should just stay away from him. If he ask to see you, you tell him no! You tell him you don't want to see him anymore. If he is such a nice guy as you think, he will leave you alone. If he doesn't, you really need to talk to someone. What about a counselor at your school?

I'm the type of girl that don't like to talk to people I like keeping it to myself why I'm going to see him I always see him he live close to me he knows everything he knows my school he takes me to school sometime but more in bad weather he lives one block away from me

For example if wendsday is a bad weather he going to pick me up some breakfast if I ask him and take me to school after ofc has done sex with me and I really need that ride because I got one to give me rides I used to have my father friend but he left to New York my school it's kind of far from my house

Girl you are not thinking. You are sending this guy mixed signals. If you care about your boy friend, why are you taking rides from this man, talking to him? You either want him to leave you alone or you don't, it does not sound like you do. You are not being right with your boyfriend either. You need to stop messing around with this man.

I do care about my boyfriend and I love him but I don't know I think I have some type a feeling for him

I probably have some feelings about him but I just don't want nothing with him I want to be done

He is the first guy you had sex with and he keeps himself around and available to you. I think you like the attention from this older creep. This man is abusing, has abused you and you don't even realize it.
Stop allowing this. How far is your school from where you live? How do the other kids get to school?
Stop disrespecting your boyfriend and leave this guy alone.

I probably have some feelings about him but I just don't want nothing with him I wanna be done
Well if you want to be done, be done. Stop taking rides and breakfast from him. Stop talking to him. Leave him alone. Does this guy work? Why is he so available to you?

It's like 47 min of walking with car it's just 10 min the other kids walk I walk sometime not in bad weather and we don't have those school bus we do but they are for the special Ed people yeah he work when he drop me of to school he go straight to work

You need to find another way to school. You have the power to stop this. Do it.
Are you still having sex with this man?

No last time was last month

But he said he want to have sex again

But he said he want to have sex again

What will happen when you get pregnant?

No I make sure he wears condom

But he said he want to have sex again

Where do you live (general area). Depending on where you are, it may have been illegal for him to have sex with you at 16. It may still be illegal. If he is pressuring to have sex again, you NEED to report this to the police. Or at least talk to someone at school.

No I make sure he wears condom
Couples who use condoms get pregnant.

I thought you wanted to stop and to get away from him.

That's what I'm planing to

That's what I'm planing to
No, no planning anything. Now. Stop. No Contact.

I do and I will

I do and I will
No "I will." No more contact. It's over.

Ok...

What should I do if I see him he Live close to me he sees me when I walk

No contact.

Ok...

You are cheating on your boyfriend with this creep and he will no doubt have sex with you again. This guy is a creep. What he has done to you is wrong. He has you so brainwashed you don't even realize it. That is what pedophiles do.

Walk a different way so it is not close to his house. No email, no texting, no phone calls, no talking in person, no being together. Nothing. No contact at all.

[i know and I feel guilty when I'm with him I really feel bad

Ok let's see how that going to work

You have no intention of staying away, do you. You will walk near his house and hope he gives you a ride to school and asks to meet with you later. You have no intention of going No Contact. You have no intention of telling your parents or another adults about this, have you. What we have said here has not made a bit of difference, has it.

Omg it's has I know what I'm going to do but I'm not going to tell my parents me and my parent don't talk that often I did talk to an adult earlyer they told me to report him I'm not going to do that I'm just going to avoid him but if he does do something stupid ill report him

You aren't willing to save other girls from this sexual predator? It will be because of you that he will be free to go after another innocent girl?

I never thought about that 0,0

I rather them to do it I don't want to get with all that drama

So some underaged girls are going to be raped because you don't have the courage to report him.

I know him that guy not like that he has a good future he has a good job really nice car house everything I know his not that type you probably would understand me if you ever talk to him he not like that

He did it to you. He will do it again with other young girls.

He did it to me because that time he decide to touch me I let it happen and then I let pass everything else that would happen to a girl if she would have le nothing happen

He did it to me because that time he deside to touch me I let it happen and then I let pass everything else that would happen to a girl if she would have le nothing happen
A 22 year old man can overpower a young girl and I'm sure you weren't the first. I would have called the police long ago. Who knows what kind of diseases he has given you.

Eeeew diseases no he don't have HIV std cramps nothing like that I'm healthy and clean I thanks god

Eeeew diseases no he don't have HIV std cramps nothing like that I'm healthy and clean I thanks god
How do you know if he has diseases or not? And have you been tested since you had sex with him?

The way that surtain part lots like I guess no my mom don't know I have sex

Do you have learning disabilities and have gotten special help at school?

Lmsao no I'm good

I got issue but I'm good

So that has also made you an easy mark for him.

And I don't do drugs I don't do ahcole only in special day

Well he was there for me when my ex broke up with me

So you were an easy mark for all the loving he offered to you.

... Um

He actually was helping me to look for a collage he help me with a lot of things

Has the school ever given a name to your learning problem?

If the school have given a name to my learning problem what you mean the only problem I got is my language this my second language but I understand everything I write I hear I see right now I'm trying to learn Portuguese and then I want to learn frensh

French ^

What is your native language?

He actually was helping me to look for a collage he help me with a lot of things

College. Not collage.

You should learn to spell it before you go. Just saying. :)

Spanish

Thank you you help me to spell college I learn something new :/ pss

Spanish

I've always wanted to learn Spanish. Sadly I only know one phrase, and you're too young to hear it. ;)

Keep working on your English, you're doing well. English is also my second language. :)

[yeah thanks

You posted here asking what you should do. You have been told by several people what you not only should do but need to do. But you appear to want to just ignore that.

By everything you have posted, this guy knew you were a minor. He knew you were vulnerable. He preyed upon you! Everything you think you know about him is probably an act he puts on to get what he wants.

Ok I understand I did and yes I have and I wanted to know what you guy will think about this because some people don't have same opinion some people think it's nothing bad its just number some people just are too much and I'm not going to ignore it thank of you guys I know what I'm going to do