aprilbaby1086
Dec 26, 2012, 07:30 PM
Hi,
So my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now and we don't have sex really anymore. He still is very affectionate, kisses, hugs, fondles, cuddles etc... but he's not really interested in having sex or any sex related stuff no oral, anal, anything.
I don't mind not having sex all the time but I would like to do it once in a while. I have talked to him about it on a number of occasions, he says that he still loves, me finds me attractive, and wants to have sex, but he doesn't feel like it, or he's too stressed out or worked up about work.
He's told me that he will go talk to his doctor about it to see if he has low tess. But he still masturbates daily or every few days, not to mention the LARGE amount of porn on his computer, and before we had sex a lot like a few times a day, then a few times a week, then once or twice a week to now we're at like once a month or less. We live together and have for several months and we get along amazingly. I still love him like crazy and want to be with him both sexually as well as emotionally. At this point I'm not sure what, if anything, I can do. We are both in our mid to late twenties and are working professionals we don't have a lot of time together but even when we do it seems he would rather watch TV then have sex. If anyone has some suggestions then I'd be happy to hear.
Thanks
So my boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now and we don't have sex really anymore. He still is very affectionate, kisses, hugs, fondles, cuddles etc... but he's not really interested in having sex or any sex related stuff no oral, anal, anything.
I don't mind not having sex all the time but I would like to do it once in a while. I have talked to him about it on a number of occasions, he says that he still loves, me finds me attractive, and wants to have sex, but he doesn't feel like it, or he's too stressed out or worked up about work.
He's told me that he will go talk to his doctor about it to see if he has low tess. But he still masturbates daily or every few days, not to mention the LARGE amount of porn on his computer, and before we had sex a lot like a few times a day, then a few times a week, then once or twice a week to now we're at like once a month or less. We live together and have for several months and we get along amazingly. I still love him like crazy and want to be with him both sexually as well as emotionally. At this point I'm not sure what, if anything, I can do. We are both in our mid to late twenties and are working professionals we don't have a lot of time together but even when we do it seems he would rather watch TV then have sex. If anyone has some suggestions then I'd be happy to hear.
Thanks