View Full Version : What is going through her head?
Matthew58
Dec 18, 2012, 06:35 PM
Ok, me and my girlfriend broke up because she had to move away and it was hard because we couldn't see each other. I love her and she tells me the same thing. We barley talk that much any more and when we do it isn't for long. When I really tell her how I feel she tries to end the conversation. This was by far the longest and best relationship either one of us has ever had. No matter how many times we fought, everything got better in the end. She is the first girl I have ever trusted that I could trust. Everything between us was great but a few weeks after she moved away she decided to break up. I just want to know what is she thinking and if I will ever get her back.
Fr_Chuck
Dec 18, 2012, 06:46 PM
How old are you ?
Why did she move away if the love was that great ?
If you are old enough, and that much in love why did you not move with her ?
Most long distant loves fail because a person wants someone in real life, to see in person all the time
Homegirl 50
Dec 18, 2012, 06:49 PM
I'm assuming you guys are teens. How long had you dated before she moved away.
She is probably moving on. You should do the same.
Matthew58
Dec 18, 2012, 07:00 PM
Sorry I just turned 18 and she had to move with her parents and I'm still living wit my parents. It may be because she doesn't want a college man I don't know she just randomly broke up with me.
Homegirl 50
Dec 18, 2012, 07:14 PM
Know one knows but her. This could be a good thing. Making you available for someone perfect for you.
Concentrate on school. I hope you do well.
Matthew58
Dec 18, 2012, 07:17 PM
She was perfect for me that's the problem
Homegirl 50
Dec 18, 2012, 07:45 PM
Well something was wrong. She randomly broke up with you.. She was not the one for you, maybe she knew that. How long had you been dating?
Concentrate on school.
Matthew58
Dec 18, 2012, 07:48 PM
We dated for almost 5 months. Ever since she moved I been crying myself to sleep
Homegirl 50
Dec 18, 2012, 08:03 PM
Get out, do things you enjoy, concentrate on school and make new friends. You will get through this.
Matthew58
Dec 18, 2012, 08:07 PM
I do all them things but I steadily continue to think of her instead of having a good time.
Homegirl 50
Dec 18, 2012, 08:17 PM
Of course you will do that for a while, but it is not going to change the situation. You have to decide to move on.