I am a twin who's birth name was Billups. I have been on line everyday trying to find birth brother and mum help me please. I suffer from mental issues and very bad deppresstion. I lost my dad a few months ago and its frustrating. Any ideas for me?


Thank you.

This is a world site. Portland could be anywhere. Your best bet to start is Facebook. You have your brother's birthdate as well as name, so put his full name and birthday out there.

Have you tried reunion websites?

I don't generally condone reunions where all parties are not willing, and the fact that you are depressed and have mental issues means that you are probably placing a higher value on a reunion making things better for you than you should be.

While I don't discourage searches through avenues such as reunion websites and contacting the adoption agency used to leave your contact information in case the other party wants it, I don't condone the "stalking" type searches that hiring a detective or using social media to find someone generally include.

Get on reunion websites, contact the adoption agency, GET COUNSELING, and wait. If your birthmother is also wanting a reunion, she will be using reunion websites as well.