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youngGirl1607
Mar 14, 2007, 09:27 AM
Hey I'm 17 years old and there is this guy that the past 6 to 7 months
We've been talking but he never seemed to want to be my boyfriend so it made me want him even more! Time went by and now he is in love with me but sometimes I feel I waited to long for him and now I lost interest,but I think about him constantly,I worry where he's at what he thinks of me I'm crazy over him... till it comes to other guys if I see a guy nicer then him hotter sweeter I want that guy but then realtity hits me and I know I could never be with that other guy! I don't know what to do! At times I think I love my boyfriend then others I question it!!
I NEED HELP!! :( :confused:

valinors_sorrow
Mar 14, 2007, 09:42 AM
You are just experiencing the things we all did when we first discovered and became involved with boys. Oh boy, BOYS!! LOL

You will fare much better if you stick to keeping things light and fun. Less soap opera, more light dating and hanging with friends and having fun. You will have plenty of time later to settle down with someone more seriously. There is nothing that says you need to be exclusive with anyone. Bear in mind that being exclusive is a big commitment and one that works better when you are more sure of yourself and other people.

So for now, have fun, sweet seventeen young girl!

rebel-2
Mar 14, 2007, 10:10 PM
Don't keep changing your mind, we hate that!! :),

youngGirl1607
Mar 15, 2007, 10:08 AM
Dont keep changing your mind, we hate that!!! :),
Then stopp giving us differeent choices.
I mean one minute you guys act like you care and the rest of the time you don't give two s about the important things to.
Why do you guys do that

karinagalindo
Mar 15, 2007, 10:31 AM
They probably do that because they are stupid and don't know how to treat girls!!

Greg Quinn
May 29, 2007, 12:54 PM
You are having very natural reactions to being a young woman. But... That's normal for a lot of people of almost any age. You need to stop what you are doing and really think about what you want, and who you want. I have thoughts that make me a little weary here and there I choose to stay with the person that I know loves me and I love back. So often a person loses the great one that they had, for the one they thought was better. But I really have no idea where you are with and how much you like your boyfriend. I can tell you one thing... Follow your heart and your mind.

tiffrocks2010
Jun 16, 2010, 09:29 PM
You are having very natural reactions to being a young woman. But...That's normal for a lot of people of almost any age. You need to stop what you are doing and really think about what you want, and who you want. I have thoughts that make me a little weary here and there I choose to stay with the person that I know loves me and I love back. So often a person loses the great one that they had, for the one they thought was better. But I really have no idea where you are with and how much you like your bf. I can tell you one thing...Follow your heart and your mind.
You are sooooo right!