Okay, firstly I now suffer with premature ejaculation. Personally I am of the opinion it is secondary prem ejaculation. My story is, I am now 25 and I suffered with phimosis until I was 23. My phimosis cured naturally. Prior to it being cured I could control climaxing for as long as I liked (1hour no problem). I would really have to concentrate in order to ejaculate. Ever since I have been free from phimosis I last about 3-4 minutes and find I am concentrating on not ejaculating! Which is extremely frustrating! And it is ruining my relationship not to mention destroying myself esteem. My glans are now fully adapted to natural contact with no trouble except I still have pe issues. On a side note, I did used to suffer with anxiety, which I was on ssri's for but stopped cold around the same time it started, could this also have had an effect? I have trued herbal remedies, sprays all to no avail. Please help! Thank you