Hi have met a girl recently, it’s about 3 month and we love each other. But before she met me she has a very very special friend. She has known him for 2 years and they have been hanging out very often since then.

Recently, the guy passed away then she started to become someone else. She often says she loves, misses me, and much more. Now, it all stopped. Then I ask her why, she said she needs some space and time. Our relation is not like before. Sometimes she doesn’t even text or call me. When I ask her 'do you still love me?' she would reply 'I love u very much '. When I ask her out, she will always refuse it. What should I do?

What choice do you have. Tell her you love her and want to be there for her but the message your getting is to give her space. Tell her you are there for her when she is ready then give her space. Hope for the best and prepare for the worst. What other choice is there.

Let her grieve on her own my friend, and stop pushing for romance and good times, and being so insecure about it, and selfish.

She aked for time and space... give it to her.

Grieving is a process I've lost a lot of people close to me and I've learned that everyone grieves in their own way. Some people can't be alone and other people want nothing more than to be alone. If she tell you she loves you very much trust her. And be there for her and maybe do something nice that would cheer her up and think of you such as flowers or a card via mail. That way she still has her space and knows that you're there for her.