Me and my boyfriend of little over a year just ended things this morning
I will admit there was a lot of imperfections in this relationship but we always persevered and pushed through. We got into an argument and since he lives at home his family was an instant audience. He is VERY religious and extremely adamant on pleasing his father. I left his house on a bad note and his parents were very un settled with this[who wants to see their son upset?] that night we pretty much didn't talk. He however talked to his parents his father said he didn't approve of the relationship but that he was old enough to make his own choice[because that's really giving it a fair start.. ] his mom however said she hadn't a clue. This morning he called me and basically started it to say we need to cut off things all together. He can't be himself but he still kept saying he loves me, and that he feels he can do no more for me, that I need to seek god? Which I do we are the same denomination. I'm upset because he can't stand on his own he needs his parents to tell him what to do, he can't ever make decisions on his own he always uses them to shield standing up for himself, that and god as a crutch. Throughout the day though we cooled down persay and really ended more peacefully I apologized for getting punchy and so did he. We came to this agreement that we won't shut any doors or make anything an absolute. He still says he loves me and that this divide is a good thing. The anger and the whole I think its best we never see each other again went away?

I don't know what to think. I'm at a complete loss of what to do.
In a non rude way I don't know what to even think about him
He's given two VERY drastically different demands for us.

What do I honor, I have all intentions to honor and respect his wishes I owe him that out of just plain decency