Met this girl at the end of the summer and wasn't immediately attracted to her. But, the more time I spent with her, the more I started to like her. I started texting with her more and more and then found out that she was dating someone. However, she only started dating this guy for a little more than a month. Which is longer than I've liked her. I felt like I led her on to the fact that I was "into" her, but obviously not enough.

So, I kind of came to a conclusion that she must not be feeling the same way I do about her. Then, at a small party, we were playing a game with some friends and due to a certain rule made up during the game, we had to hold hands. Now, it's obviously not the first time we've ever touched each other, but the first time we had held hands. When our "time" to hold hands was over, obviously I was reluctant to let go, but not as reluctant as she was apparently. She didn't let go of my hand. She did shortly afterwards. She also initiated a lot of contact throughout the party.

Now, I am not the kind of guy to just try and get a girl to cheat on her boyfriend. I definitely have some serious feelings for her, and I kind of get the feeling sometimes that she has some slight feelings for me as well. I'm starting to get real confused.

I'm not going to openly try to get her to leave her boyfriend or cheat with her boyfriend, but what should I do? Thanks!