Hi. My name is Melinda.

Im here because I'm unsure of a lot of things that are going on with me one happens to be with a man whom I have known for almost 2 years. Its been On and Off and I really feel that we should be getting a little more serious. Im a Single Mother and I've been bymyself for 5years. He' is a Single father and was single for 2years. We meet back in Jun. 2011... Through those times we've had ups and downs and there have been times to were I've cought him text and talking to other women. To the point were I would feel so small after I would do anything for him. Anyway. I find myself getting very fustrated waiting on him. Every time I leave he pulls me back , I have a issue more at the fact that he doesn't want to open up to me about him and I but always brings up how he listens to me whenever I have a issue. ( but its never about him and I) I guess what I'm trying to say is I bee in this friendship/relationship with him for almost 2years, I know I'm not happy because I'm at a point were I want to be married and settle down and I really want to have another baby. With him I feel num. I'm not happy and I hate waking up questioing everything. I try having a heart to heart and nothing. I do believe that the way his ex left him is a big reason why he's like this. What should I do should I stay around or let the relationship fall?