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Ti_Dee
Nov 18, 2012, 07:30 PM
My soul mate died a couple of days ago. We were in a long distance relationship (he didn't live in the US) and though we were so far apart we rarely had problems with anything in our relationship because we were just meant for each other.

He died quickly but still had time to leave me a message and everything. In it he asked me to fall in love with someone else when I am ready. Perhaps it is because it is still very fresh but I don't see myself with anyone else. I feel like he was it. Im young and I lost the love of my life and now he is gone. That is the way I feel.

Nobody loved me more than him and now Im scared no one ever will. And if someone does I don't know if I can love them as much as I love my baby.

Please help.
I am Christian so my faith has helped but it is still so hard for me to imagine ever being in love again.

elomdagh
Nov 18, 2012, 09:32 PM
Words cannot describe how sorry I am. Hang in there as best you can,my heart goes out to you. And listen, he wants you to be happy. With time, your heart will heal. You will always miss him and love him, but he would hope for you to live, and love, and laugh.
I will pray to god to give comfort
Huggggz

Fr_Chuck
Nov 19, 2012, 06:17 AM
A few days is not time to even think or talk someone else. You can tell he was concerned about you being happy, That can come in the months and years that follow.

I have seen two wives go before me, and God as he often did in the Bible, found a new partner for me. Never one to replace, but one to add to my life. Each different, never compared, but all appreciated and remembered.

For now, grieve, and miss and remember.

Selfishtwirl
Dec 22, 2012, 03:59 AM
This is exactly what happened to me... please help