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heartbroken23
Nov 18, 2012, 07:05 PM
Me and my boyfriend have our ups and Downs but we argue a lot because we don't have strong communication
NEED ADVICE *PLEASE HELP ME* that's our main problem everything else is fine!

Wondergirl
Nov 18, 2012, 07:15 PM
How old are the two of you?

Do you both tend to communicate well in general with others?

heartbroken23
Nov 18, 2012, 07:23 PM
I'm 20 he's 19 and yes we do

Wondergirl
Nov 18, 2012, 07:25 PM
So why are you failing to communicate with each other? What is it about your personalities?

heartbroken23
Nov 18, 2012, 07:36 PM
Well we don't know how to compromise and we he want to do something he do it wit out meeting me 1/2 way. And I'm the type of person that like to stick to the plan that was agreed on and he seem to always change it at the last minute and we over talk each other but sometimes ill listen until he say something I don't agree wit and he do the same

Wondergirl
Nov 18, 2012, 07:39 PM
So you both need help with communicating (listening as well as talking) and knowing how to compromise.

heartbroken23
Nov 18, 2012, 07:54 PM
Yea you right but Wat makes me mad is he always walks away or hang up when he don't want to here something I say but I he say I love you I don't want nobody else and I feel the same but he will say leave him alone but he will call me and when I call back he say it was a mistake but that's not possible when you have a pattern lock on you phone