The catch is we are both in other relationships. I know this is not the best thing and I never expect me and him to be together. I do have feelings for him, I care about him a great deal but at the same time keep asking myself what do I care about since we don't spend much time together. Lately I've been thinking of ending it all, the friendship, the benefits, everything but then I get freaked out at the thought that he will just say OK and I will never hear from him again. I could stop the benefits and just remain friends but I realize how that will most likely end. He has never offered any feelings about the relationship so I don't know how he feels. But it has been six years so there has to be some right? (yes I know.. wishful thinking) Any thoughts on what the best way to move on in this situation is. Deep down, I think I know its best to end things but How do I cut ties with someone Ive been seeing for several years? While we are not "in love", I care for him a great deal but again, am unsure of his feelings. We have never had that type of conversation and I don't feel that I need to explain my plans if I decide to cut off the relationship or why as he has never put their feelings on the table. I rarely contact/text him at all but the problem is, I find myself wanting and waiting for his text and when I do finally get a text, cannot resist responding to them. Please help!

In my opinion if you are both in other relationships you should not be seeing anyone else unless you have agreed to have an open relationship.
It's time to choose I think.

You're not being fair to yourself or any of the other parties involved.

None of these relationships will go anywhere if you keep things as they are. Time to decide who you want to be with and, more to the pint, who wants to be with you.

Why are you in a relationship with someone else and being this guy for so many years? You need to break up with your boyfriend because you are doing him dirty and leave your booty call alone. He is doing his person dirty