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CrystalFonseca
Nov 15, 2012, 12:51 PM
My name is Crystal Fonseca , I was born in Brooklyn, New York ; September 29th 1994. I typed in 'Im desperate to find my birth mother' on Google and found this page. Even though I read some things on here and how rude the people are. I don't care I am curious to find out my Birth Mother, Her name is Dianne Diggett , she gave birth to me under the influence, I was not born in a hospital, I was born in a apartment bathroom but baught to Kings Center Hosptial. I was put up for Adoption at 2 weeks old, the hosptial would not let my mom keep me. I LOVE the family I have been adopted by I have 3 brothers and a Sister they are all adopted also, but I still had a open adoption with my mother till I was about 5 years old , then I was told I could never see her again.. on Valentines day. Ive gone 13 years, without asking, searching, anything. I would think she would be searching for me, she gave birth to me , she gave me up. And I have a connection with that women that I cannot bear to not have. I can't stay mad at her forever , she doesn't know who my father is, and that kills me the most because I would be a daddys girl. I have a father figure now. My Father that adopted me. But we don't have a good relationship at all. I know DNA from hair can be done. But I'm more focused on finding my Mother first. My Adoption Mother, she is helping me try and find her but there is absolutely Nothing I can find on her or the last name Diggett we've wrote people on Facebook they ignore me as if I'm some Scam or something. It hurts me each and everyday knowing she's out there , and I haven't seen her in 13 years ! And I have a father who doesn't even know he has a daughter I could Posably have brothers and sisters that I don't know I exsist.. If ANYONE can help me, websites , numbers, tips on what I should do next , or If you KNOW of her or that name. Please help me.

Synnen
Nov 15, 2012, 01:25 PM
You need to register on reunion websites. If she is looking, that's where she'd start.

Your adoptive parents have to have some information about your adoption, and should be able to get information on your/your birthmother's case through the state.

You may need to hire a licensed private investigator to find her.