I have been married for seven years and my husband always tells lies about me to his friends, he always talk about me behind my back,how stupid I am.
I pay school fees for our son , pays transport, medical aid. And mentain myself. But he ll tell his friends that he is doing all that, compalining that he don't know what I do with money.
He always lie about his were about unnecessarily. Basically he lies about everything.
And he always blames me for everything that went wrong in our marriage. I don't know what to do.

Seeker,

You know the truth and the truth shall set you free. If he continues to lie allow him to. That is what he is about. There is nothing much you can do about someone else lying. It is his friends regardless if they know the truth does it change the facts. If your contributing to the payments of school and other finances? The answer is no. So in essence you continue on doing what you have been doing knowing that he lies unnecessarily.

I never advocate for divorce unless you seriously can not take another minute living with this individual. Do you pray? Consider praying about it.. If you do not pray seek counseling, but if you listen to me... you will save money... I would not even go as far as trying to understand why he lies. I know why he lies. He is looking for a way out, but does not want to seek a divorce so what is the next best thing make your life a living hell until you ask for it.

Words of Wisdom
Lies will always be a lie.. What's the next stage in a lie.. the TRUTH

Guardian

He probably lies to his friends to make himself seem like a big shot and not a bum. He sounds like a jerk. Is there a reason why you are still with him?