Tigre83
Nov 14, 2012, 12:49 AM
Hi all,
I am into a dilemma. I have been together with my boyfriend for 10 years and I know the passion isn't what it used to be but recently after a few arguments he said he doesn't find me attractive anymore, as I am more like a sister for him and not a partner. After making up he always regrets what he said, he apologize, and he says he didn't mean it. But that is upsetting for me.
In the past, he used to say he loved me often, now I need to ask him if he does love me and he says : of course I love you.
What do you think guys? We are of different nationalities, and he is living in a country he doesn't really like at the moment. I mean, he came here with me because he said he cares etc. As far as I know he doesn't have anybody else , but it seems the passion is becoming less after such a long time, What do you think I should do ? Please help
I am into a dilemma. I have been together with my boyfriend for 10 years and I know the passion isn't what it used to be but recently after a few arguments he said he doesn't find me attractive anymore, as I am more like a sister for him and not a partner. After making up he always regrets what he said, he apologize, and he says he didn't mean it. But that is upsetting for me.
In the past, he used to say he loved me often, now I need to ask him if he does love me and he says : of course I love you.
What do you think guys? We are of different nationalities, and he is living in a country he doesn't really like at the moment. I mean, he came here with me because he said he cares etc. As far as I know he doesn't have anybody else , but it seems the passion is becoming less after such a long time, What do you think I should do ? Please help