Jayday
Nov 12, 2012, 08:34 AM
My girl keeps walking away from me. Its not easy and I'm considering walking away. I am currently holding on but I'm considering dating other women because once the air clears she may want to date others and live the single life. She says that she wants me and just needs time but she can be very harsh at times and its been a constant up and down battle. I've only been dating her for six months and she kind of suggested the relationship. She separated from her ex husband in Nov and moved into her own place. I met her in May. She is a mom of a two year old from the marriage but swears that she doesn't want him and I'm such a great guy in her eyes and wants me. When we met in May she was in the process of moving from her apartment into her parents house to save money and help them out. She finalized the divorced in July. My thing is that we are in our thirties; I'm 37 and she's 31. So should I wait for her at this point in my life or call it a wash? She just told me last week that she wants to start transitioning into my place and bought a few things over to keep here.Not even two weeks later I came home from a DR appointment and all her stuff was gone. She feel like she can't be there the way that I need. I don't ask her for anything and she says that I should have expectations of her but the little that I do she's not sure she can do right now. I wentt to school one night and she asked me if I wanted her to cook me some food, I said sure; I have some defrosted chicken in the fridge you can make that. She texted me while I was in school and said; the chicken smells spoiled, going to the store. Cool right? So I come home from school and no food was prepared. I ask what happen to the food? She said; I told you the chicken was spoiled. I said; you said, you were going to the store. She said; I did to go Wendys to get me and the baby something to eat. I didn't say a word, left out the house and got me some pizza. The next day was my DR appointment and like said earlier, I came home and all her things were gone. The next day after she took her things, was her child's Birthday party and I said I wasn't going to go and I dropped off the gift I got for her child by her moms house. She called me and asked me to come to the party the morning of the party, I went, and right after the party she went just left and went back to her moms house and all in a sudden had issue with me, treated me really bad with words. Did she ask me to come to the party so she wouldn't look foolish in front of her friends? Who knows but this what happened all because she's going through so much. All that's cool but should I stick around for her? That's the major question. Oh yeah, I forgot to mention that I do cook for her regularly when ever she's around, so this isn't about a women cooking for me. What should I do?