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kfaul10
Nov 10, 2012, 03:28 AM
My boyfriend hadent text me back since Tuesday. I rang to see why and he said at the time I wasn't helping the situation (his dog had just died but I was I wrote him a lovely text ). I rang him and ask him what was going on and he said that I never text him either and that he was always the bad one but I said I wasn't going to text you if u couldn't even text me back. I confronted him about why he's being distant the past to weeks and he said that my nagging and need for reassurance has driven him away and I told him I like that because his cold heartiness and distance was diving me crazy. He agreed that he hadent been the easiest the past two weeks and also that he wasn't there for me when I needed him ( I was having family troubles) I asked him did he want to be in the relationship and he said I don't know I kept pushing because I wanted a definite answer and he said atm no he said that were too young to be as stressed as were are over the relationship (hes 20 am 19) .I think though if you love someone you'd want to try he said he had tried:/ I said that I do think we need space I know I do because I want to find the person I was when we got together the person he fell in love with. But he said that am not going to change ? When I know I can a bit of space apart and living without him ovbousily am not going to be needy. I love him so much and we've been together for 2 years but am just afraid while am giving him space in this breakup hell focus on the negative sides of the relationship and not the good times we had . I don't even know if hell miss me . The only reason I was insecure was because he had broken up with me a month ago and I just felt insecure when we got back together. He said when we got back together I was back to my old self but then just went back to square one that I didn't just let the relationship happen but if I was with him for 2 years it shouldn't be a problem for him to give me reassurance ? I don't like the way I'm getting all the blame for it. I asked was there someone else and he got ma and said no and I asked was it that he wanted to meet other people and he said no of course not he's not even thinking about that and he said that in the time apart if I met other people it would be his own fault.. I don't know what to do should I give up and accept this is the end ? Or should I give it some time and see how it goes ? Please help I'm going crazy . I told him before if he broke up with me it would be the end but I don't want I to be I love him and he said he loves me, I just tink he's just fed up but is there any way back from that ? Please answer..

Mattdyd10003
Nov 10, 2012, 12:52 PM
Maybe there is a way. Maybe he just needs some time to think things over I'd give him the time. Sometimes guys need time to think about their relationships. And I'd just leave it at that sooner or later he will tell you but pushing it will nor help he probably just needs time to think about thinks.