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Jessmarie12
Nov 8, 2012, 12:57 AM
We're in college and we've been best friends since we met. I honestly thought he was gay but I found out he wasn't. I didn't get feelings for him until we made out one night when we were drunk and since then we've been making out every single time we were drinking. I started getting feelings for him and ended up staying the night with him a few times and we even tried to have sex once. It hasn't changed our friendship. It actually made it stronger. I am falling more in love with him everyday. We spend all of our time together, and I really want to tell him but I don't know how he will react.

Oliver2011
Nov 8, 2012, 06:23 AM
You tried to have sex once? I have no clue what that means.

So you can only be physical when you both are drunk? That doesn't sound like the foundation of a good relationship. But regardless you should be open and honest with him and let the chips fall where they may - whatever that means.

Homegirl 50
Nov 8, 2012, 07:57 AM
Why don't you too stop getting drunk together and trying to have sex and have a sober conversation. See if you are both on the same page

Dican212
Nov 8, 2012, 04:12 PM
You need to have a proper conversation with him about it, otherwise you may end up being lead on my him if you are starting to have feelings for him and he may not