So, I really need some advice on this guy I've been talking to. I've known him since high school and I started talking to him through Facebook about two years ago. We message each other all the time. Well finally, we decided to hang out. This was in July. We hung out with his friend, and my friend and well all 4 had fun. He drove an hour to come see me with his friend and spent the night. We didn't sleep together. After that, he were talking some more and we decided to hang out again. Well, we both kept getting busy. Then, one night I went to his house really late & well... we had sex. His grandma ended up kicking me out right afterwards and I had to drive all the way home. After that, he ignored me. He just stopped responding to my messages and became uninterested. Well, after moving on and realizing that I gave up the cookies too soon, I received a message from him with some excuse of why he hasn't talked to me and asking how I've been and hoping that I don't hate him. He said that he was busy, his grandfather died, and he was in the middle of moving all at the same time of getting a new job. Maybe this was all true, but I'll never understand why he couldn't just say hi every once in a while? I mean completely ignoring me? IDK.

Anyway, I told him that I didn't mind and that I was busy too because I was moving back to school and taking full time classes. Anyway, we hung out again. He picked me up from the bar at 1 in the morning. We went back to his house. Watched some TV, talked a little, cuddled, and fell asleep. He tried to feel me up a little bit, but I kept pushing his hand away so we didn't have sex. A week later, I heard from his friend that he was talking to someone else. I messaged him saying this wasn't what I wanted and that I figured him out. We ended up getting in an argument and he denied it. He asked "who am I talking to? I don't even have time to barely talk to you?"

His friend ended up telling me that he must've been confused because he knew he was talking to someone, just didn't know who. He told me that the girl he was talking to was me all along. So, I told him that okay, I believe you. But, I just wish you would've told me you wanted to have fun and fool around instead of telling me that you wanted a relationship. This only led me on. I told him, "if that's all you wanna do is have fun, that's cool, just let me know so I don't invest any type of feelings" and he said no that he was looking for a girl. I told him well here she is, let me know when your ready.

So, a few days go by, and he messages me back saying sorry, he moved AGAIN from his mom's back to his grandma's house. He wanted to see me. I told him I was home for a little bit and that I wouldn't be back for another 2 weeks for Thanksgiving Break. So he asked if I was busy, and I said no. So, we made plans to hang out. He started calling me babe. He kept complimenting me. Saying how beautiful I am. Then, I get to his house... and we are watching football, drinking some beer, and just talking. He brings up the "other girl" and says yeah that was you the whole time. I really do want a girlfriend. Do you want a boyfriend? I said yes I do. He said okay because I don't want to get more involved if you don't want that. I said well I do. Well... we ended up having sex. I didn't want to. But he was being real sweet and saying all the right things I guess... Before I left his house, he kissed me on the lips gave me a hug and said "can you just believe me? I'm not like other guys I'm serious" and I said "I hope not." and he started laughing and was like "are you serious?" and I'm like "Well, I don't think you are, and I hope not. But I guess we will see."

Well, I messaged him after I left and he called me babe one more time and said to not worry (he didn't get off because it started hurting so I told him to stop) and then I messaged him when I got home saying goodnight.

That was Sunday. It's now Wednesday and he hasn't said anything to me. I know he's been working everyday. But, he's made plan with friends tonight to go play basketball and he still hasn't said one word to me. Did he use me? Is he like every other guy? Or have I not given him enough time to say something to me?
It is the 3rd day now and I'm going crazy!! Someone please tell me what I should do. Or tell me if you think he just used me again? HELP!!

I say leave him alone. He thought he could get in your pants again without a relationship. Your conversation and last visit showed him he couldn't.