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ananhawamdeh
Nov 7, 2012, 11:25 AM
Every time I think about myself and about others , also about my relationship to them
I found that every single body :
Lie at me when they say they care
Call me or talk to me only when they need me
Why is this happening to me!!
While I'm just I young boy !

Wondergirl
Nov 7, 2012, 11:33 AM
Is it possible you are misunderstanding? Please give examples.

How old are you?

ananhawamdeh
Nov 7, 2012, 11:46 AM
Is it possible you are misunderstanding? Please give examples.

How old are you?

I'm 17.5 years old
I prefer to talk on Facebook.. but if you don't its OK

I'm at the first year at university
And every body from my experience > I feel that they hate me or at least no body likes me !
I saw that they don't behave or act with me as they acts with my friends... you know... their behave with me is just telling me that they are lying at me

Wondergirl
Nov 7, 2012, 01:28 PM
I prefer to talk on Facebook.. but if you don't its OK
My preference has nothing to do with it. A site rule is that conversations that begin here stay here, on this site.

I saw that they don't behave or act with me as they acts with my friends... you know... their behave with me is just telling me that they are lying at me
Perhaps your impression is incorrect? How do they act with you as opposed to your friends?

ananhawamdeh
Nov 10, 2012, 10:53 PM
For example : they say to me hey... and then they go
But with other guys : they talk to each other for along time
And so , I stay lonely all the time , and no body talks to me
I tried to interact with them , but they kind of ignoring me!!
Because of this I will try to leave the university and just stay home !
I just think its enough "I do not need any more compliments"

Wondergirl
Nov 10, 2012, 11:16 PM
But I like you and like to talk with you!

ananhawamdeh
Nov 10, 2012, 11:49 PM
Thanks a lot

Wondergirl
Nov 10, 2012, 11:59 PM
So tell me about yourself. What foods do you like? Do you like to read? What's your favorite subject in school? ThenI will tell yoju about me. :)

ananhawamdeh
Nov 11, 2012, 12:07 AM
I don't prefer some food on others... I like all of them :P :)
I like to read about psychological stories and advice's .
I finished school , and now I'm at my first year at university .
I used to play football when I was at school , but now I don't .
I live with new guys away from home , I see my family every 2 months > but its not a reason of sadness .
I love to play football games on computer .
Unfortunately I'm not doing good at university because I don't study well !
That's all what I can say about myself...
Its just another loser in this world .

Wondergirl
Nov 11, 2012, 12:10 AM
Make flashcards for yourself for your various subjects and study them every day. There are lots of tricks like that for studying and remembering information.

Do you like samosas or baklava?

ananhawamdeh
Nov 11, 2012, 12:14 AM
I will try to study as you said...
But please if you have any tricks please send them please :0

They both delicious, but I think I would prefer samosas... what about you ?

Wondergirl
Nov 11, 2012, 12:19 AM
Samosas for lunch (with green chutney or maybe mango chutney) and baklava for dessert. Yum!!

I will think of more tricks. What courses are you taking?

ananhawamdeh
Nov 11, 2012, 12:21 AM
Thanks again
I take : anatomy , fundamentals of nursing , chemistry , biology and english :)
Do you think that I will be a good nurse... " boy nurse hhh " - from my personality...

Wondergirl
Nov 11, 2012, 12:26 AM
thanks again
i take : anatomy , fundamentals of nursing , chemistry , biology and english :)
do you think that i will be a good nurse ... " boy nurse hhh " - from my personality ...
Yes, I think you will be an EXCELLENT nurse. You are sensitive and like people and are caring. And the world needs more male nurses. I had a male nurse when I had cancer surgery. He was from Africa and was a total delight. And because he was male, he had some skills different from the female nurses -- he had more strength and was more of a problem solver.

ananhawamdeh
Nov 11, 2012, 12:30 AM
I'm sorry for the surgery... I hope you OK now
That's a good news for me
Then I will try as hard as I can in order to success in the university :)

Wondergirl
Nov 11, 2012, 12:35 AM
And I want you to post updates now and then so I know you are doing well.

The surgery was three years ago, and I am doing fine now. I met lots of wonderful doctors and nurses and aides. You are going into an in-demand profession. Will you specialize in anything?

ananhawamdeh
Nov 11, 2012, 12:39 AM
I don't know where to post the updates...
I think after a BA degree in nursing , I will continue into the master degree...
I don't know if I can be a general doctor , but if I can , I will take the chance :)
Do you have any other ideas ?

Wondergirl
Nov 11, 2012, 12:44 AM
My nephew became a male nurse and then a nurse practitioner and then an assistant anesthesiologist. He slowly did this over ten years as he gained experience and figured out what he liked to do.

You can always post on this thread.

ananhawamdeh
Nov 11, 2012, 12:51 AM
That's awesome !
I hope someday I will meet you all :)
OK sure I will
Do you have family / brothers...
Tell me about yourself

Wondergirl
Nov 11, 2012, 12:55 AM
It's almost two a.m. in Chicago where I live, so I must go to bed. I will talk with you soon, though, and give you more study ideas. :)

ananhawamdeh
Nov 11, 2012, 12:59 AM
OK OK :)
Have nice dreams
And thanks a lot
I will talk to you too
Sorry for making you being so late
C u

Wondergirl
Nov 11, 2012, 01:02 AM
To practice your English here, always write complete words.

See you soon. I will dream about your courses and how to make them easier to study so you get good grades!

ananhawamdeh
Nov 14, 2012, 06:30 AM
hey :)
how you doing today?
by the way : I got a grade of 20/25 in a midterm exam ^_^
I know its not so good for my dream
but for the average of the class its

Wondergirl
Nov 14, 2012, 08:45 AM
You will do better on the final, right??

ananhawamdeh
Nov 14, 2012, 11:20 PM
yes , I hope so ^_^

Wondergirl
Nov 14, 2012, 11:30 PM
Review all those flash cards you are making.

ananhawamdeh
Nov 15, 2012, 01:06 AM
OK sure