I had sex during my first month of birthcontrol pills for the first time. We also used a condom. I had some spotting a week later and my period was very light after that so I got worried and took a test that was negative. The next month it was normal but then this month I've been having spotting and cramping. I'm not due to have my period for another week and a half. I took another test and it still said negative but I am extremely worried. Should I be concerned or am I just being parinoid and the spotting is just from the birth control?

I wouldn't worry, spotting is normal with birth control pills. Unless you've been on antibiotics or had an upset stomach, as long as you've been taking your pill on time, you should be fine.