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HurtHannah
Nov 6, 2012, 05:33 PM
Ive been friends with this guy for a while & we finally became official boy friend girlfriend in the summer when we were together (we live in different states). Our relationship was like no other. We felt as though we were a married couple, so comfortable with one another. Our undying love was the reason we stayed together after the summer when I went back home.
Just a few weeks later he ended things. He said it was pointless when there would be no future bcecause we have different views on religion and I'm not as religious as he is. However, we talked about religion and how we both weren't where we wanted to be with religion and we knew in the future we both wanted to become more religious.
I wanted to stay friends because he was my best friend. He said it would hurt too much, so we stopped talking. We'd discreetly tweet to one another and that would lead to a little conversation every so often.

Long story short (may be too late) we both still love each other but that's not enough for him to talk and be friends again.
I still think about him, all the time. It hurts and I feel so alone.

teacherjenn4
Nov 6, 2012, 05:50 PM
How old are both of you?

HurtHannah
Nov 6, 2012, 05:53 PM
High school seniors.

teacherjenn4
Nov 6, 2012, 05:56 PM
It is very hard to maintain a long distance relationship. Did you only spend time together just this summer?

HurtHannah
Nov 6, 2012, 05:57 PM
It is very hard to maintain a long distance relationship. Did you only spend time together just this summer?

We've been very close friends prior to our official relationship in the summer.
I know its difficult being long distance, I just miss my best friend.

teacherjenn4
Nov 6, 2012, 06:00 PM
We've been very close friends prior to our official relationship in the summer.
I know its difficult being long distance, i just miss my best friend.

He can't be friends with you anymore?

HurtHannah
Nov 6, 2012, 06:02 PM
He can't be friends with you anymore?

He said it would be too painful if we were just friends.

teacherjenn4
Nov 6, 2012, 08:16 PM
He said it would be too painful if we were just friends.

You will need to follow his wishes.