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Aylsworth97
Nov 6, 2012, 02:59 PM
I do not want to really describe my situation. I am 15 and live in the state of Indiana. I have not got along with either of my parents at all. My mother disclaims me and wants nothing of me and my father is a drunk that is dying with each drink. They are divorced so I have to deal with my step-mom whose a pathological lier and is mean to me all the time. We never get along. The thing is I have no family I know and I have tried living with my mom, she does not want me and living with my dad is horrible. What can I do? I only have 2 years of school. But I do not want to live here at all. Please, do you have any suggestions??

dede1234
Nov 6, 2012, 03:03 PM
>edited for clarity<

Just cope with it for the next two years, then go study and become something big and live independently to show your parents that they don't have to be in your life for you to achieve your dreams. Besides, they will still need your help in the future.

Wondergirl
Nov 6, 2012, 03:04 PM
Tell me more about your stepmom.

Aylsworth97
Nov 6, 2012, 04:27 PM
My stepmom is nothting close to a "mother" for me. Her biolagical childern are 150% better and more important to me. I am left out of everything that should envole "family". Evertime I come home I have a new reason to get yelled at. She got pregnant and had a baby with my father. She is now 8 years old and still has a pasiphier. I have caught her stealing and lying straight to my stepmoms face. But, every time I come in and say something. Its just "I don't know anything about life" and "I am too young to understand." I never know what I'm talking about. My blood brother lived with my dad and stepmom too. She would get mad enough at him to throw whatever was in her hands at him. Since she married my dad his drinking had increased dramaticly and they are CONSTANTLY are fighting about sex right in front of everyone. I do not care about that stuff. She is always taking my money I earned when I am gone a school and saying she'll give it back. Living with her is literally like living in a sicom. She has new drama (no matter where or who, she'll find it) everyday. It is just so hard to live with someone that is like this and knowing that you do not HAVE to. But, I believe my father is a good man I just wish he didn't drink as much.