I have ben w this guy for 8 years off and on. Lately he's acting weird... He rarely wants to have sex. Never calls or texts me 1st. When I mention my frustration his typical reply is DRAMA, DRAMA... He rarely never wants to call about anything. It makes me feel sick. I can go almost a whole day without talking to him... than I get a urge to call or text... when I do talk to him, I sense his lack of interest, makes me want a puke. I have a great day, and than talk to him and my energy level gets so low.

Am I Just paranoid or is he into someone else. The more I ask questions the more distant he gets.

Really, from what you've posted, I have to wonder why you're still with him? It seems like you two just aren't right. Whether he is cheating or not at this point seems irrelevant to me... it seems like you're just unhappy with him overall. Do yourself a favor and dump him. It will probably make you feel better about yourself and life in general.

I'm in the same situation, he never texts or calls unless I do! He acts cold and says I'm the one who needs to stop acting crazy, we go days without talking. I don't know why we are both putting up with them!