6 months ago my husband of 10 years (3 gorg kids) found out I had kissed a work colleague on two work nights out! We kissed only and were very drunk when this happened. There were problems in our relationship and since coming clean we have worked through a lot of our problems and are far better for it. All if which my husband agrees.
I still work on occasion with my work colleague, but he knows I am not interested and that it was just a drunken kiss and that I love my hubby.

The problem is now, is that my husband has a hard time with me going out, he is not a sociable man (part of problems) and I have always gone out drinking with work/friends ext. we have agreed that I do not go on any work night outs from now on either if this particular male colleague is not going.
But he still has a hard time with me going out with friends and I often feel very nervous telling him I have a night out planned or been invited out.

Any advice please.