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sarahyoung05
Nov 3, 2012, 11:32 AM
Okay so I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is 17. We have been dating for a year but he is kind of a wimp. My parents make fun of him because he complains about being tired. They say "he is a senior in high school and should be having fun! Not laying around and playing video games." I already broke up with him once but I got back together with him because I really missed him. When we have fights he does tend to cry. Its just that sometimes I think that I should break up with him but I don't want to hurt him or go through that pain again. My mom is saying that she doesn't think we should break but she says he is an absolute p***y. I end up defending him but I know he is one. He also gets mad at me sometimes whenever I hug guys or ignore him for a second if I'm talking to somebody else. I have mainly guy friends so this is difficult for him. I seriously don't know what to do. Please help me!!

Wondergirl
Nov 3, 2012, 11:37 AM
You cannot make him do anything. He is who he is, and if there are changes to be made, he has to want them. Accept him as he is, or move on.

sarahyoung05
Nov 3, 2012, 12:13 PM
Should I break up with my boyfriend? We have been going out for a year and he seems to control a lot of my life. I love him but he and I just don't seem like the perfect couple. He acts like a jerk sometimes but other times he is really sweet. He is pretty nerdy which I am too but not on his level and he is kind of a wimp. But we like the same stuff mostly and we get along pretty well. I don't know... I guess I just need some advice.