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KacieMarie_
Nov 2, 2012, 05:59 PM
Okaai. So me and my boyfriend are having a baby boy, in less than a month actually. But now things are becoming odd. Not between us; We`re actually pretty great. Its he said he`s 7% gay, as in he`d only like for a guy to things to him--excluding anal sex--just oral basically but not return the favor. && He finds several guys attractive. But basically, I find gay girls attractive and honestly, I find any pretty girls body parts attractive.
He has a problem with it. But that's not what's bothering me--Its that we`re about to have a baby and I`m becoming attracted to girls && he`s already half attracted to guys, just not as bad as me cause I tell him I`m attracted to this and this. With him its just he`s cute and smile--one guy did make him blush though. We call him Frank, like Frank Ocean. Anyway, I don`t know what to think and I need a little bit of advice.. if possible?

wazzaguy
Nov 2, 2012, 06:05 PM
I think the best thing to do is keep your relationship going until at least he stops and moves to a guy or you w/ a woman.But you should keep the baby in my opinion. :) And don't worry too much it's normal.

KacieMarie_
Nov 2, 2012, 06:17 PM
Ooh We`re Definitely Keeping Him. He told me the 7% thing like 5 or 6 months into our relationship. Mines just now coming--I find myself sort of attracted to one of my closest friend that's actually pregnant too, but was bi. But she doesn`t know. She was huggin all on our other friend Carmen (false name), who doesn't know she likes her, but it made me a little jealous. :/

Homegirl 50
Nov 2, 2012, 09:10 PM
How old are you guys? You have a
Baby due soon and you're concerned about sexual identity? Your hormones are probably in flux right now.
Get prepared for this baby. Deal with the other later.

Gamed
Nov 2, 2012, 09:14 PM
What advice could you possibly need?
Gay or straight doesn't matter. Im sure your not the only woman in the world he's attracted to and he doesn't leave and I'm sure its not a problem. So why does it matter if he's a attracted to a few guys to?
Same goes for you but vice versa

joypulv
Nov 3, 2012, 12:09 AM
You sound very, very young. Concentrate on supporting yourselves, using birth control, and taking good care of the baby. Who cares what sorts of attributes each of you is attracted to, or what pet names you give people? It only matters if one of you acts on it in a way that is hurtful or upsetting to the other one.

Fr_Chuck
Nov 3, 2012, 05:33 AM
Someone is not 7 percent gay. He is either bi or gay. Gay will just like guys. Bi will like both,

He is either bi or he is not. No percentage