There is a girl I have known for a little over a year, I have liked her since the first time I saw her. Thing is, she had a boyfriend so I never said anything. She broke up with her boyfriend and we have been talking and hanging out more often. Tonight she calls me over to her place with a couple of her friends to hang out. Almost everyone left except me and another guy. They go to smoke outside and I can hear them talking. I could not hear everything but I hear him tell her that "He wants to give her everything she deserves" I even heard her mention me because I was just sitting next to the patio door.

They come back in and the guy is touching her a little bit more, He gets some more alcohol which means he's not in a hurry to leave, I just offered to leave because I have to work in the morning. She follows me outside kissing me, and stays like 10 min hugging me but she's drunk. Am I just being paranoid/jealous here. She's not my girlfriend but.. Oh, they apparently went on a one date years ago and we were actually trying to hook this guy up with one of her friends (did not work).

Let her go? You don't even have her. All this time and you couldn't bring yourself to express your feelings or give her any clue that you were interested in a relationship, such as asking her out for one little tiny DATE? You can do better than this guy saying crude things to her. Say something nice to her, such as how you have always thought she's a nice person (and a compliment about her hair or face or whatever you want) and ask her to go for a coffee or lunch or just a walk.

I just offered to leave because I have to work in the morning. She follows me outside kissing me, and stays like 10 min hugging me but she's drunk.

Having to work or not, no way do you leave your drunk friend alone with a guy who wants to make a move on her.

Act like you care!