View Full Version : So, I met this girl
Dnlflowers13
Oct 29, 2012, 06:13 PM
I met this girl online, and we talked for a bit and pretty much hit it off. We exchanged numbers and I've been texting her for over a week now nonstop. A few days after I started texting her, I really realized that I like her. She told me that she liked a guy and told me it was a secret when I asked who. I eventually asked if it was me since the description fit me, but she told me I was just her "besty". She lives around 2000 miles away from me. After a few days, we talked about that guy she liked from her school and apparently she said she can't date so talking to him would make her like him even more, so he had to stop talking to him. And the. She told me she liked me a lot after a couple of days. Now we feel as if it is forbidden love and we really like each other a lot. Unfortunately, she can't date and she Also lives 2000 miles away from me. What should I do? Wait till she is out of high school to date? And by the way, I'm a junior and she is a sophomore.
Juicy09
Oct 29, 2012, 06:23 PM
Maybe I'm not completely clear but she likes u and the other guy? She needs to figure her feelings out and figure out what she's going to do... 2000 miles is far, a friendship is probably best and if it last until you guys get a little older then try something more.
Dnlflowers13
Oct 29, 2012, 06:27 PM
She doesn't like him anymore. :/
bones252100
Oct 29, 2012, 06:35 PM
At your age, you have a lot of living to do yet. Never jump on the first one that that seems so good. You have a lot of fun to have & a lot of work to do. Sample all the products (girls) out there. Be very patient & wait for the one you could comfortably live with for the rest of your life. Until then, enjoy the ride of life. In the mean time, complete your education so you can get a get a good job to make some money & establish yourself. Once you are established with a steady job there will be plenty of women for you to sample & select.
This advice comes from a 61 year old with 2 divorces because he did not do this. However, his son followed this advice & is married to a beautiful woman & they have a nice home & 2 beautiful children. He waited for the right one.
Dnlflowers13
Oct 29, 2012, 06:42 PM
Thank you.
Juicy09
Oct 29, 2012, 06:46 PM
She doesn't like him anymore. :/
U haven't known each other long enough, trust me a friendship is best right now with the young ages and long distance, keep talking, texting, skyping & getting to know each other
Take it slow if it is meant to be it will be, if not there is someone better