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blue 25
Oct 28, 2012, 07:59 AM
Hey I've been dating this girl for about 2 1/2 months. We've known each other since 7th grade. But was not always around. There was always some attraction between us before and college. Now we have been dating is been great! Never argued maybe just a don't do that but always calm. Things we tried to take at a good pace to not rush things and she always tells me I'm amazing. Always text me first during the day. We really have been into each other like crazy. But She is so busy between night classes work and a child and sometimes her baby father who is completely cut off. We are always thinking of one another. She has said her feelings have change... maybe something from a. Joke I said and she got upset about but told me she was over and is behind us it openly. We moved on from and still laugh and joke and go out weekends. But that is when the cjange came which I told her I regret playing about. Im not sure if its also because of stress andeverything she is dealing with. She still texts me during work and talk. Ive told her no pressure just want to continue what we have just let things work themselves out maybe with time and she said OK. Or have not force things. Should I just chill for a few weeks till she gets some things off her plater. Really into her and can tell she really is also but just holding back now with intimacy which she admits I'm good at. What do you guys think. She says its not me but just need to think now more about her feelings and tjat there is no other guy she is seeing. Is it the stress from everything right now. She has been alil moody lately so I kind of been giving some space. Now she says maybe friends. But our Friends even tell me that its not me just give a little time she's dealing with a lot. Do you think I can regain her feelings after some of this stress is relieved or do think its not to be. I really do not want to lose her very beautiful intelligent and exclusive dating lady just been hurt before really bad few years ago by ex.