OK so basically I was in a relationship with a guy that I fell in love with the moment I set eyes on.hes from a relatively poor family.btw I'm from London but I currently live in sulaimaniyah, Iraq,He lives 2 hours away.so at first there was no way I could tell him how I felt.a year later I saw him again and so then I told his cousin who used to be my friend to tell him how I felt but instead he told him that I hated him(I found that out later) a couple of monthe later I saw him at my uncles house,and it was amazing he felt the same way about me and I just went crazy when I saw him,it was the best feeling in the world,we kissed for the first time.1 month later I saw him again which was even better we spent about 5 hours together with my cousins.this was the last time I saw him about 7 months ago.about 3 month later my mums sister found out and she told my mum(my mum absolutely hates his family) she literally went crazy and it became a big fight between our families,our communications are cut of completely.Ive always tried calling his dad in necessary circumstances but after the big fight his dad forbade me to contact any member of his family.I don't even know if him in relationship anymore or if I'm still his girlfriend.btw I'm forbidden to go anywhere near the city he's in.Every single relative I had turned against me after this and made up a million rumors about me.What hurts is that he doesn't know that after all this I still love him and I'm still trying to contact him but one more risk and that's it because my parents gave me one more chance to let go.(Im Muslim by the way but I'm from London so I'm sort of different than the people here)And I don't know what he thinks about all this.Everybody tells me to let go and I've tried but he means too much.Please give me some advice.It really means a lot.(Im 16 btw)

Mmmmm that's really a tricky situ you in dear,firstly your parents being against that relationship already m

Means that you two might never work out.you only sixteen(if am nt mistaken)it hurts that we are not given the chance to be with the pipo we want.you still young and you still learning how to control your feelings.its not easy to let go but let go.

First thing I would do is get out of Iraq.