Okay I have a question... I have been with my man for 6 year now on and off, I have 2 children with him 4 and 2 yrs. He does not and I mean does not ever want to take me out no where ever!! I don't know why!! I try to talk to him and I tried to suggest things and places and I get a sarcastic "yeah okay", what in the hell does that mean?? I told him I actually want some kind of commitment and I get nothing, not a response or anything. Im kind of tired of his sh*t though. But when his friends come over and ask him to go places with them he hops up and gets ready and just tells me I will be back, it really bothers me and hurts my feelings and I don't know what else to do or say, but I'm to the point where I think I'm going to tell him this relationship needs a break because I need to have some attention from my man. I mean he sits in the house with me all day long when I get home from work but that's so boring!! He never wants to get a sitter but complains because the kids drives us crazy from time to time but don't ever want to do anything but go sit at his friends house and gossip like a female but worse!! Im at my toll, I don't know if I should give it a little time and see if he surprises me one day which I always hope for it, like maybe one day he will tell to get dressed I got something planned for us but no I won't hold my breath for what! I can't believe I crying out to the internet for help on trying to convince my lazy a$$ man to take me out or do something besides want me to cook and watch t .v. And do laundry I swear there's more to life then that its 2012