Hello, whenever I make love, I never produce an orgasm. In other words, I never . What can I do?

Do you know what it takes for you to have an orgasm? Find out, and tell your partner, or experiment with more ways to make love, like positions, and different techniques.

Practice makes perfect. And its fun finding out. Have you told your partner of your inability? Tell him!

Can you orgasm when you masturbate?

It is very common for women to be unable to climax at all. It is more common for them to be unable to climax from only penetration.

Many females need other stimulation such as with fingers or a toy. Some couples use oral sex or 'fingering'/toys before or after intercourse for the female to climax.

Something to understand about the female orgasm is it starts in the brain. If your mind is distracted or not aroused (arousal begins long before clothes come off), your body will have a harder time climaxing. Pressure to climax is common problem that inhibits the ability to orgasm. Others include feeling comfortable and 'safe' where you are having sex.

Instead of focusing on climaxing, let your mind get caught up in the moment. Enjoy what is happening and guide your partner toward what feels good for you. As a couple, experiment with sensations, tempo, angles, positions, etc. Communicate with each other about what feels good. It should be journey of discovery and pleasure, not a race to a goal line.