Hi, This is my first time on this forum, but I am in need of a little help...

I have been with my boyfriend for near on a year which I no isn't long, which is what leads me to my question really...

My boyfriend and I had a very healthy sex life to begin with, he couldn't keep his hands of me at the beginning, but now a year on its as if I have to go on to him to get sex... Which makes him angry and for him to turn around and to tell me that all I think of is sex or for him to say sex isn't everything.

Granted I know its not all about sex isn't everything, but I no in myself with my ex's its always been me with the low sex drive so I no that I don't have a very high sex drive in myself... but I can dress up and he isn't intressted its always on his terms, like I say I have mentioned it to him and he doesn't seem to change it and just tells me that the sex we have is great and there is no problem with it, and too much sex isn't healthy, but then I say well surely nor is enough... my saying to it is I get it once a week if I'm lucky but it can go up to a month and its always me that makes the first move.

But it just seems to me that's he not interested any more as I've recently mentioned moving in as I'm there bar every other weekend when he will then have his children and I have to go as the mother of the kids doesn't want me near them, to which winds me up as he should stand up to her but all I get is I live with my mum so its not as if its my place so she has her way,

But when we do have sex its over with within ten min as he is now ejaculating to quick, which to me says where we are not having enough sex.

He says there is no one else he doesn't want to be with anyone else other than me which is something I suppose, don't get me wrong we are a hot headed couple and do bitter a lot over petty things but we also have some great times,

I just don't no what to do to feel loved and him to feel interested in me again, he is nearly 29 and I'm just 21 so is the age something to do with it?

Sorry for the essay but I feel a bit better now!!

Advie please!!

Girl sounds to me like age is either the problem or he just isn't into it as much sometimes you can wear a guy out lol. I always found that if I didn't act like I wanted it or that I lost interest in it that they won't it more because we aren't reminding them of it =) Also let it go for a while and loosen up a little and then go out and get all dolled up and buy a new sexy outfit and surprise him good! Lol let me know what happens?

Haha yea I will do I've tried the sexy outfit and that worked but I'm going to try losing up... He hasn't changed much else bar the sweetness but we all no that dies down haha and thanks