I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We started in college. Upon graduation of my masters I got a job an hour away from were he lives. He is been saying lets move in together but its been 6 months and he hasn't even made time to look for apartments. He also said he wants to marry me but he hasn't saved money or does he have any money saved to buy a ring. We went out with his friends and his friends made fun of us because they say he has been saying the same things about marriage and moving together for month and has done nothing. I don't know what to do. He sometimes doesn't even have money for gas for his truck. I see he gets a lot of bank notices for overdrafting. I feel trapped that others are moving their life fwd and I am in the same place.