I've walked by this girl junior year and always thought to myself I have to have her. But sadly I never talked to her junior year once. Then senior year started and I went to the homecoming dance and I met her with a group of friends. We were dancing and had a great time. At the end of the night I got her number and we hugged. We both texted each other every day and it was great nice conversations. Then I asked her out and the first date we went to the movies. Now I was already attracted to her to begin with but I didn't know if she felt the same way. And that first date I took her back and I kissed her. It felt right to me of course. The next night we meet she we kiss again just walking around late at night. So at school I walk with her and talk with her and yeah and kissed her in between classes. Then after those two separate dates one on one time we start hanging out with groups of friends. It was fun and all but I never got to express my feelings towards her those nights. So were still seeing each other give or take through sept 15 through oct 20. Were hanging out at her friends house. And I ask her what are we like are we boy friend girl friend or what? And she answers back saying I'm not looking for a relationship right now. This year I want to focus on family and friends... I like you and think your cute but I just don't want to be in a relationship. At this moment I'm crushed and I don't know how to react to this. I just agree with what she said and figured I rushed things. Fall break come by and she becomes more distant with me. She doesn't answer her texts as fast as possibly now. And we still talk face to face no problem but yeah I feel conflicted. I'm in the friend zone for sure but what should I do. I really like the girl there's no one id rather be with then her. But I just feel like she's pushing me away. What should I do leave her alone for a while or just keep being friends with her and hangout as friends till the time comes?

You should most definitely back off... either 1 of 2 things will happen, she will realize she wants you around and wants you in her life & try to reach back out to you or you 2 will become even more distant but that will only show that it isn't meant to be..

Being friends with someone you have feelings for is nearly impossible if the feelings and desires aren't mutual... best thing is to have a break and see what happens, distance will also help you get in control of your feelings