Okay, so my girlfriend came over, and I'm 18 and we started messing around and making out. Anyway we did that, then progressed, and stripped. She was really wet and I was hard but when I put the condom and we started having intercourse I couldn't . I went about 20 minutes and she climaxed but I just couldn't. Why is that? Was the condom too tight? Not lubricated enough? Or what? What kind of condoms should I get.

I suspect that you were nervous, as you should be. The condom could leak or break and you could be shelling out child support for the next 18 years, or paying for an abortion, or feeling pressure to get married. Also I suspect that the atmosphere wasn't quite what you had fantasized about. And maybe you wondered if it was her first time or not, or what it 'meant' to have sex together, or any number of questions running 'round your brain?

Who knows.. I'm guessing about all of this of course, so you tell us if any of this sounds right. I just know it wasn't the condom.

Is this the same female you were asking about in July? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/girl-problems-should-tell-her-how-feel-686980.html

By the way, Happy belated Birthday. :)

Uh oh. Are you 18? And she's 15 or 16? Beware of the law...

Yes it is the same girl. But we there for like 25 minutes and I couldn't. Does it take longer? Should I have kept going?

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