seeking4answers
Oct 23, 2012, 11:00 AM
So my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and 2 months ago we decided to live together.
A few weeks ago I started getting upset with him for having his friends over every single day and leaving with them, because we only spend a couple of hours alone a day. I've tried talking to him about just spending 1 whole day alone with me a week, but he gets angry and says that we are with each other all the time.
Last week he was really moody and told me that he wanted me to move out, when I asked him why, he said that he's stressed out. So I suggested that I wait a week before I move out just to see if we could fix some of our problems. Well things have been going really good up until today, after talking to his guy friend on the phone, he told me that he wants me to leave for a couple of days so he can have time alone. I agreed and told him that I had planned to leave for a couple of days this weekend to spend time with my family.
He flipped out on me and said that he wants me to leave tonight and stay with my family for a couple of days. I told him that I found it suspicious that he wants me to leave today when I am supposed to be leaving this week, but he just said "I don't want to wait for the weekend, I want it now."
So once again, I agreed.. but I'm worried; I feel like he's trying to distance himself from me so that he can just break up with me or get me to move out permanently. I've always gotten along with his friends, but I feel as though they have twisted his decisions, because they don't want me always being around. I'm not always around though, most of the time I'm off doing my own thing or I'm at home and they're out doing something.
Please help me.
A few weeks ago I started getting upset with him for having his friends over every single day and leaving with them, because we only spend a couple of hours alone a day. I've tried talking to him about just spending 1 whole day alone with me a week, but he gets angry and says that we are with each other all the time.
Last week he was really moody and told me that he wanted me to move out, when I asked him why, he said that he's stressed out. So I suggested that I wait a week before I move out just to see if we could fix some of our problems. Well things have been going really good up until today, after talking to his guy friend on the phone, he told me that he wants me to leave for a couple of days so he can have time alone. I agreed and told him that I had planned to leave for a couple of days this weekend to spend time with my family.
He flipped out on me and said that he wants me to leave tonight and stay with my family for a couple of days. I told him that I found it suspicious that he wants me to leave today when I am supposed to be leaving this week, but he just said "I don't want to wait for the weekend, I want it now."
So once again, I agreed.. but I'm worried; I feel like he's trying to distance himself from me so that he can just break up with me or get me to move out permanently. I've always gotten along with his friends, but I feel as though they have twisted his decisions, because they don't want me always being around. I'm not always around though, most of the time I'm off doing my own thing or I'm at home and they're out doing something.
Please help me.