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cocogir123
Oct 21, 2012, 06:29 AM
I'm a 16 yr old girl and I like a 14 yr old girl. We started talking and she said I was the one and she got jealous whenever I hugged or talked to another girl which was cute. Things were good until she heard a rumor that I was done with her. So she said she's done with me.. I just want her back because I do like her. What should I do to get her back?

Cat1864
Oct 21, 2012, 07:21 AM
Cocogirl, someone showing jealousy in a relationship should not be considered 'cute'. Jealousy is a sign of insecurity. It means she didn't trust you.

If you found her jealousy 'cute', did you do anything to encourage her to be jealous/insecure?

All you can do is give her time to calm down. She isn't ready to listen to you at this time. Will that change, I don't know. She is young and she is hurt. She is also insecure and looking for reasons not to trust you. The rumor may have been the reason. Until she is ready to trust you more than people who spread misinformation, there isn't anything you can do.

What you need to do is go about your life. It may not be the answer you want, but it is the best thing to do.