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Animal_Chick
Oct 20, 2012, 11:49 PM
I met a guy though my friends one night and he's a year older than me (im 16) and we clicked so easy that night and we started speaking and its been 1 mouth already and I know loads about him and he knows loads about me. I can't get my head around that he says he has a girlfriend and he hasn't seen heard or spoken to her and he says he was thinking on dumping her. Now he's saying he has something to tell me but he can't see me till this weekend as he works and does college.

I try and say hey to him and send him like a text a day saying things like hope you have a good day and that. I do like this guy and all my mates say he likes me. He once said "I do like you but I have a girlfriend".

I hate waiting to know what he got to say to me but he's not replying to me or even speaking to like nearly 2 weeks. I don't know if I have done something wrong. :( I don't get guys some of the time and its really bothering me he does sometimes reply and I understand if he's tired but I mainly speak to him when he doesn't have work or college.

joypulv
Oct 21, 2012, 02:05 AM
You haven't done anything wrong. He really just does have a girlfriend, and he really is busy with college. He might forget unless you run into each other again. That's life. I know it's painful but you have to get back to your friends and try not to dwell on it. Good for you for not texting a lot - that's a good way to seem annoying. If someone doesn't get back to you, you have to let it go.

Animal_Chick
Oct 22, 2012, 03:29 PM
Heyy thanks that's really reasureing just don't want to be pulled along and bad things happen and I end up broken hearted