View Full Version : How do I know if I've had sex?
PurpleDawns
Oct 20, 2012, 03:50 AM
Unfortunately I was drunk that night and don t remember anything happening but something could have.
I am a virgin and looked for fluids or blood on the sheets afterwards but didn't t see anything at all. There was no discharge in my panties either.
Was intercourse a possibility?
joypulv
Oct 20, 2012, 05:15 AM
Yes. He could have used a condom or a handkerchief or not finished, or the semen leaked out if you peed. What is the last thing you remember?
PurpleDawns
Oct 20, 2012, 05:28 AM
We were definitely making out and there was possibly some manual stimulation.
However, we both had our underwear on the next morning and like I said, no fluids at all in the bed or floor and I didn't notice anything coming out when I peed.
I'm just so paranoid about a pregnancy.
ScottGem
Oct 20, 2012, 05:42 AM
Then go to your OB/Gyn to check whether there was penetration.
Oh and if you are paranoid about pregnancy, then don't get so drunk in the future.
J_9
Oct 20, 2012, 05:58 AM
Scott, an OB/GYN cannot tell whether penetration occurred. There would have to be a rape kit done to determine this and most OB/GYNs don't have them in their offices as this is usually done in the ER.
ScottGem
Oct 20, 2012, 06:07 AM
I was going to suggest a rape kit but thought that this may not have been a very recent event.
In that case, the OP can only wait to see if they get their next period.
J_9
Oct 20, 2012, 06:12 AM
Rape kit has a chain of command once it is opened. I don't know if the OP would want to consider charging this guy with rape or attempted rape.
Fr_Chuck
Oct 20, 2012, 07:04 AM
Panties can be put on and taken off, and I have know it to happen with some panties on, depending type and style.
So sorry it could have happened, no way to know.