For the last few days I have a had urge to go pee. Ive had 2 UTI's in the last 3 months, so I know what the symptoms are and how I react. Every time Ive taken the antibiotics they've worked. This time I am able to go to the bathroom yet it is in a small amount still but its not a trickle, there is some flow. But after I wash up no later then the time I step out of the bathroom I feel like I have to go again. I have been drinking the recommended amount of water and taking cranberry pills. A couple weeks ago, my boyfriend and I used a different type of condom. Stupid us started without it first, but ended with it. I believe it was a spermicidal condom, and I had a slight reaction to it. I was a little irritated down there and red for about a week. Everything has cleared up, but now Im stuck with this frequent urge to urinate. Is there a possibility I got some sort of bacterial infection from a condom? Or just a strange reaction that is causing this.
I am also afraid, he has seemed a little distant lately and we haven't seen quite the amount of each other as we normally do. Is there a possibility that he has given me something from another girl?

"a possibility'.. yes, but if the condom was latex you could have been allergic to it; healthcare workers in my neck of the woods are not allowed to use latex hygiene gloves any longer because of the allergy problem.