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hollyvazquez12
Oct 18, 2012, 11:00 AM
Here goes my story... I'm 29 and my boyfriend is 21 I'm really in love with him and we have a lot of arguments over the past couple of months the last two arguments we had he has told me that he was going to ask me to marry him but I wasn't worth it and that he was going to find him a tTEEN... he says things like that every time and I don't understand why I cook I clean I wash his clothes I run his bath water everything that a man would want in a woman not to mention that I stay in the house and do nothing and he has trust issues also... they say that age is nothing but a number but I'm starting to wonder if he's just to young for me or what!!
charchar737
Oct 18, 2012, 11:12 AM
Well
He sounds like a child to me
I say dump him
hollyvazquez12
Oct 18, 2012, 11:16 AM
That's what I'm starting o think when we first got together everything was perfect between us now it's not so perfect we rarely have conversation it's more arguing all the time over stupid stuff but I really love him and I wish he would just understand that and be the man he's suppose to be
backpack2389
Oct 18, 2012, 11:51 AM
Everything you describe is what he would want in a mom, not a girlfriend. It's nice that you do those things for him and that's a way to show affection, but what else do you do together? What does he do for you? A relationship can't be you just cleaning for him and staying at home so he, seriously insecure as he sounds, doesn't feel jealous. He sounds like a child, a through and through jerk and you should leave him. You also need to boost your selfconfidence a bit. Get out of the house and meet someone better, someone who will trust you and return the love and care you give them.
hollyvazquez12
Oct 18, 2012, 11:57 AM
Oh and his jealousy is way out of control we don't really do anything together besides go to the store or out to eat every once in a while him doing anything for me jaja that's funny he does nothing I do everything I would really like it to work out but Ibe come to the conclusion that he's not giving the 100% like I am... I guess I'm just going to tell him how it is either he gives his 100% or I'm out