PDA

View Full Version : How to gain trust back


D_NICE313
Oct 17, 2012, 05:36 PM
How can I join trust back. I lied to my girl about not talking to other girls but I don't want to lose her I really love her we been together for a year now. And I need to know what can I do to gain her trust back

Homegirl 50
Oct 17, 2012, 06:07 PM
Regaining trust takes time, determination and patience.

D_NICE313
Oct 17, 2012, 08:08 PM
SHould I give her space if I should for how long?

Homegirl 50
Oct 17, 2012, 08:35 PM
For as long as she needs it. Has she asked you for space? How old are both of you?
She is mad because you talk to girls? Have you cheated before or something?

D_NICE313
Oct 17, 2012, 08:37 PM
17 & no I she never asked for space & I never cheated

Homegirl 50
Oct 17, 2012, 08:43 PM
So she thinks you should not talk to other girls. Are you flirting with them?

D_NICE313
Oct 17, 2012, 08:44 PM
No but she won't believe me that I won't stop

Homegirl 50
Oct 17, 2012, 08:50 PM
Why would you tell her you will not talk to other girls? That is ridiculous! Is she so insecure she does not want you to talk to girls?

D_NICE313
Oct 18, 2012, 09:20 PM
She don't want me talking no other girl. I know I ed up big time about the lies I made I just need to get her back. But its hard I try not to argue with her but all of a sudden an argument just appears. I try my best not to make mistakes its like I do a lot but she don't. When she's mad I try my best to make her happy. When I'm sad she doesn't take that much effort. She get mad at me when I get mad at her when she's doing wrong

Homegirl 50
Oct 18, 2012, 09:25 PM
Why would you want to stay in this relationship? I know you say you love her but you don't sound happy

D_NICE313
Oct 27, 2012, 02:28 PM
But what if she is going to keep bringing the fact that I lied every time what should I do should I just give her space or what?

Homegirl 50
Oct 27, 2012, 02:43 PM
Just leave her alone. It is unreasonable for someone to tell you that you can't talk to girls. If she wants to be that foolish, leave her alone. If she says she wants to break up, let her. This girl is controlling you.

D_NICE313
Oct 28, 2012, 07:45 PM
Its all my fault I've been insecure all the time annoying her trying to make sure things are okay but when she get mad at me I just keep calling her trying to make sure she fine. Im showing her that I care. She keep saying I need to grow up.

Homegirl 50
Oct 28, 2012, 08:49 PM
So does she, if she wants to tell you you can't talk to girls.
It sounds like there are problems in this relationship. Maybe it is time for it to end.
How long have you two been dating?

D_NICE313
Oct 28, 2012, 09:04 PM
1 year & 1 Month

Homegirl 50
Oct 28, 2012, 09:13 PM
This relationship sounds pretty stressful for both of you. Maybe you need a break from each other.