Before my friend met him she was outgoing fun and she wore dresses and wanted to dress up. Now we never see her. And when we do try and make contact she lies to us saying I'm with my family when she is not or doing something else when she is with her boyfriend. The last time we saw her she lost so much weight it was shocking and also she was wearing baggy clothes to cover it up it was not the friend/cousin we knew. And that night there was arguing going on she was going no no david stop it and was crying. We were telling her you should not let a man tell you want to do. And we think when she wants to go out he is stopping her. Because before he met her she did enjoy coming out on girly night outs on fr/sat and now we don't see her atall and if we do see her she looks sad unhappy, when I see them together they are just sat there not talking. She is in love with him I know that so I think we just have to wait for her to relise what he is doing to her. How much he has changed her but I don't know what to do anymore :(