Kept thinking it was from senses fail but that's not it the only thing I really remember is the video was in a bar kind of dark and everything the main character did everybody els in the bar did in unison until the end when he tried to get some chick to take her shirt off and all of a sudden she was in control... it was kind of popular in like 04 05 I think please help I'm not even going to sleep tonight until I find it lol