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shikha24
Oct 16, 2012, 03:05 AM
Hey everyone...
I'm in the first year of CA.. I'm going through the pain of brkup.. I was in relationship with him for 2 yrs.. he loved me so much... did such things for me that I hadn't even dream of.. everythg was good.. it felt as he was my man.. he had always treated me as if I was a delicate darling.. but now after 2 yrs... d person who luved me so much said that he don't have any feelings for me in his heart.. it pained a lot hearing this.. n main prb is we both are taking coaching 4rm d same institute.. I wake him up regularly 4 d class.. we sit togethr in d class.. n I have to behave like a friend.. n now he is committed too.. I really envy seeing him talking to his galfrend.. constantly ovr d phone ,on facebuk etc... I love him so much and want him back too.

N when I asked him whether is dere any chance of our patch up in d cuming yrs.. he got so angry that I asked this question that he didn't talk to me for 2 days.. I love him very crazily and daily I have 2 face him behaving like a friend.. it really hurts.. I die every moment seeing ol this happenings.. n I can't stop loving him.. can't allow any other man to enter my life evn in future.. please help me.. wat should I do.. shud I move on or not? N if yes how is it possible to muv on facing him in d class regularly...
:'-( :'-(

joypulv
Oct 16, 2012, 03:35 AM
Yes of course you should move on, because you MUST. You have no choice. Asking him if you have a chance - no, no. I doesn't work that way when someone has fallen for someone else. Find out some way to sit somewhere else, and STAY AWAY. It will hurt less even though it feels like you have to be near him. I'm sorry this happened, but it happens to a lot of us all over the world. Surround yourself with friends.

shikha24
Oct 16, 2012, 04:45 AM
And secondly
We both have always been together.. never had been apart.. like the day used to begin.. we used to meet at school.. used 2 sit together 4 six hrs in school.. den a long chat on facebuk until evening.. same tuitions.. den he used to and meet me at my place crossing a long distance evry evening.. den we used to text each other on phone till night.. so almost 24 hrs we used to be togethr..

So do you think.. getting apart.. will make him realize how important I was in his life... is dere any chance that he will be back.. coz he still cares for me.. makes me laugh..
My heart nevr loses hope of getting him back.. n its like impossoble to move on and forgetting him.. mainly my query is - how is it possible that d person who loved me so crazily.. who was more seriously cmtd to the relationship.. n marrying me.. how can he say me that he had no feelings anymore for me in his heart after 2 yrs.. as far as I think its impossible to forget your 1st love.. :'-(

joypulv
Oct 16, 2012, 05:10 AM
People forget in an instant when they fall for someone else.
Someday you might fall out of love, and you will know what it's like.
Sure, he might be back, if something goes wrong with the new girlfriend, but you can't count on it.
If he is still being nice to you and still cares for you, it would be best if you would tell him that the pain is too great and to please stay away from you.

shikha24
Oct 16, 2012, 05:44 AM
Thanku so much joy... but still I keep on thinking how can he forget his 1st liv.. I mean he luvd me so madly :'-(

N secondly.. his new galfrend.. she is in U.K. n he being in india.. such a long distance relationship.. he keeps on talking to her from 12 at midnite to 5 in d morning.. video calls and voice calls.. but dere are sumtyms when he don't response to my calls and messages.. m pretty jealous.. how can that gal be more important dan me... :'-(
Sometimes I wish I had never been fallen in love or else I could rub this 2 yrs of relationship of my life :'-(