I'm a married (20+ male 50, hsyave a current male best friend 35. Haven't told him every secret nor as he I'm sure. I'm dealing with some real obsession and jealousy issues about him. Is this just some phase, infatuation, deterimental fantasy. I would virtually do anything for this guy short a crime (at least in some states) he on the other hand plays his cards close to his chest and believes most things should already be known and recognized without saying. I feel as though I hVE Falling IN LOVE WITH HIM, NOT MY STYLE AND I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO