Angie92
Oct 13, 2012, 04:53 PM
I'm currently 25 weeks pregnant. I had a confusion at the beginning of my pregnancy but the point is we wanted to have a baby and we planned it financially and he will tell me he loves me and with time we'll get married. We were living together but 2 months ago he started to change drastically in the wrong way. I wasn't raised with a father, no brothers, no uncles, no grandfather so I learned to be independent and not let a man control me. He soon got worse calling me names because I wouldn't "obey" certain things that weren't necessary. He started hanging out with his friends and drinking making him more violent.
One night I was wearing an XXL sweater and I'm a medium and I can fit in some small at the time since right now I'm bigger, but he usually sits outside to smoke ciggs and I opened the door to ask what side he wanted with his chicken for dinner and his friend was outside and he went inside yelled at me like a little girl saying I was a hoe for TRYING to show myself to his friend.
The next night he was leaving at 11pm to a party and we physically fought for the house keys.
The next day he made it clear that I had to leave the next morning... he was kicking me out... and I left went straight to the police dept and made a report on him cause I was left with a bruise on my arm. He got arrested and his charges were dropped since it was a petty incident. I almost had an abortion and I was 17 weeks. But I couldn't... I saw my bby and determined to keep her.
He blames me and says its my fault we aren't together. I promise to my baby girls life I call him 30 times, blowing up his phone at times trying to talk about the baby. He picks up to yell at me and tell me not to call him till she's born.
I think he should be there before she's born too... he never calls me unless I tell him to never look for us in his life.
He tells me he doesn't trust seeing me alone because I might call the cops on him again that I'm a snitch... but it was a moment thing. I felt betrayed to be kicked out like that.. idk if I should keep him around, tell him I love him even though he tells me he wants nothing, he doesn't want to see me at allll..
I told him ill give him a list of things he can buy in his own time by the time she's born so we don't have to speak but he hasn't called me to jot down the items... he threatens me with joint custody when I tell him to never look for us in his life but I don't understand why he will do that if he isn't even trying!
One night I was wearing an XXL sweater and I'm a medium and I can fit in some small at the time since right now I'm bigger, but he usually sits outside to smoke ciggs and I opened the door to ask what side he wanted with his chicken for dinner and his friend was outside and he went inside yelled at me like a little girl saying I was a hoe for TRYING to show myself to his friend.
The next night he was leaving at 11pm to a party and we physically fought for the house keys.
The next day he made it clear that I had to leave the next morning... he was kicking me out... and I left went straight to the police dept and made a report on him cause I was left with a bruise on my arm. He got arrested and his charges were dropped since it was a petty incident. I almost had an abortion and I was 17 weeks. But I couldn't... I saw my bby and determined to keep her.
He blames me and says its my fault we aren't together. I promise to my baby girls life I call him 30 times, blowing up his phone at times trying to talk about the baby. He picks up to yell at me and tell me not to call him till she's born.
I think he should be there before she's born too... he never calls me unless I tell him to never look for us in his life.
He tells me he doesn't trust seeing me alone because I might call the cops on him again that I'm a snitch... but it was a moment thing. I felt betrayed to be kicked out like that.. idk if I should keep him around, tell him I love him even though he tells me he wants nothing, he doesn't want to see me at allll..
I told him ill give him a list of things he can buy in his own time by the time she's born so we don't have to speak but he hasn't called me to jot down the items... he threatens me with joint custody when I tell him to never look for us in his life but I don't understand why he will do that if he isn't even trying!